Hello all,
Yes I am still locked and it’s now 11 Days – there you go – counting the days – but I read a post on chastitymansion.com – [I am on there look for Lucy] and someone said
“Only subs counts the days – It’s not the important fact”
It’s very true – I am locked and I am settled. Yes I would like to shave the area again soon – but when this happens will be up to Mistress.
The belt is working extremely well. I am very settled and content – and so is Mistress. A clam has descended over chastity. Oh and I am quite horny – something Mistress loves! I thought I would pose and answer some questions on this belt.
Hygiene? “How do you keep it clean?”
A shower and a hair dryer are the solutions. Strong powerful shower and a hair dryer to get it all dry.
Don’t you get smelly?
No – at toilet time I use toilet wipes to wipe the outside and a sanitary towel to catch any drips – the same as I have with all my chastity devices.
Is there really no pain?
95% of the time no – my balls are not in a ring – so no burning or pulling. The tube throttles my erections – so you get that very nice and frustrated semi hard feeling.
The 5% is on occasion my PA ring will catch on the bottom – so I just wiggle myself and it goes and on occasions my balls will get stuck in the drainage holes – but this will be fixed with the final version of the cage. Coming soon – the cage – not me!
How secure is it?
I don’t believe any device is 100% defeat proof. My belt can be made even more secure easily by inserting the pin through the cock sleeve and through my PA – but to be honest – with all the pulling and tugging in the world there is no way I could get my cock out of the tube – and if I ever managed – I would never get it back in. There is also the option of the strap from the bottom of the cage to the back of the belt – once this is in place – you cannot do any pulling at all. So with all this in place your only option would be cut the locks off or pick them if you can. Or cut the steel belt from around your waist. But if you are that desperate to remove it then why did you get it locked on in the first place?
How discrete is it?
Very – day to day you cannot tell I am wearing it under my clothes and naked apart from a pair of boxers there is no visible parts.
Are you being paid or told to say this stuff?
Absolutely not – I am a great believer in that if someone gives you the best possible service and beyond then I should tell people about it. Remember the restaurant you drive past and say I must visit there – you do – but find it closes down – this is usually due to bad marketing – and the worst form no word of mouth marketing – I am marketeer at heart – it’s my job – and believe in spreading the word where I can.
But surely there are others?
Oh yes there are lots of them – but I have had experience with a few and read reviews and reports of others. The common theme on most are:-
a) Pay a lot of money – and wait a long time
b) Pay a lot of money – and send it back cause it don’t fit.
c) No feedback
d) Hard to contact
e) Set Designs and not much possibility to modify
I honestly believe that you cannot apply any of these to behindbarz.co.uk . You may argue that the belt is expensive. But to be honest – If I add up all my expenses in trying to find the perfect belt I have spent at least 4 times the cost now!
A long time ago when I was on the mansion I asked on posts for recommendations for belts etc – I was recommended full belts by a few people. There were all made away from the UK – which would make it difficult to visit for help with fitting and were all 700 to 1500 Euros.
I hope this answers some questions?
But feel free to ask.
Hugs
Lucy (Yes Lucy has taken over!)
Hi,
Thanks for the blog. This is a really useful as I find myself in a similar situation to yourself. I have tried many belts/cages and while I've found a cage that works (I don't seem to have the same ball rubbing issues as you) and am pierced so it's pretty secure, I still crave the confines of a full belt (cage still allows for a near full erection).
I tried the fetishfelix belt a few years ago and really struggled with it because as it was before I was pierced and couldn't get a combination of belt tightness and positioning that didn't leave me in a lot of pain. I also react badly to the latex lining and just having the belt as a metal strip led to abrasions.
Given that, it's interesting to read your experiences with behindbarz. I found my own way to them on the internet and their responses to my questions has been fantastic so far (so big tick for service). Them being in the UK helps but their location is a bit of a trek for me.
It’s always good to get another opinion so I’d love to get your feedback on a few things if possible:
1/ Have you tried exercising in the belt (although I’m sure the fork-lift gives the belt a good workout)?
2/ The bar that goes underneath :are you able to remove this while wearing the device? It looks like you could push it over the bar at the back and take it off
3/ Most importantly: Comfort of the waist band. It looks pretty intense/heavy. I’m not sure that suits long term wear, especially if it rests on the hip bones (especially given my experience with the fetishfelix belt). Is it actually comfortable or more a test of will to live with it.
In the end I want a belt that is not constantly at the front of my mind as I wear it due to comfort issues so it would be great to get your thoughts on this and of course, good luck with your belt!
Thanks.
Hi bob
Glad you like the blog 🙂
To answer your questions, my job can be quite physical on occasions. So exercise no but plenty of bending a s twisting. If you have had damage from fetish Felix then the Hannibal or my new request I love Lucy will work for you perfect.
The Hannibal has an optional back strap that connects the underneath to the belt. This makes it totally non movable like one solid object so no way you can escape. Even without I cannot get out even if I pull it right up my balls would come out but my penis is still stuck in the inner tube. No escape and if you have a pa their is an optional bit that goes through the captive ring … very stuck.
On your waist yes I know it's their but no pain. I have the rubber liners on mine to stop aby rubbing and after 10 days on no marks or damage.
It really is the best belt ever.
Anything else please ask.
Philfred
Thanks for getting back.
Assuming I've not missed the answers to the following questions on your blog…
Is the "Hannibal" (nice name by the way) back strap the same as the steel rod from the normal belt or an adaptation? Do you have any pictures / more description of that you could share?
And the obvious other questions…what is different in the "I love Lucy" design?
Thanks Again.
Hi the Hannibal , I thought that was a good name 🙂 is based on a standard cage so has the loop at the bottom and can be used with the standard back strap.
I love Lucy is different. It has no bottom loop I asked for it to be removed and also the front is more enclosed , smaller holes and the option to add more attachments. I will post images but I'm not ready to show these yet. Regards Phil
Thanks again. I look forward to seeing the "lucy" in due course 🙂 When you say "attachments" do you mean things like connectors for handcuffs on the side of the waistband?
Hi bob,
I believe hand cuff attachments are already available (you would need to check with them – I don't know as I am not involved) – but no the attachment I have had made is something for the Mistress 🙂
ahh…I think I follow :o)
Thanks again